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The Leader

Instinctive centre · Types 8, 9 and 1 operate first from instinct: action, territory, survival.

“Tell me things frankly, I prefer it.”

I.

The type

His core motivation

To be strong, master of his destiny and protector of his own. Type 8 takes up space, decides and moves forward. Beneath the shell, he defends a real sensitivity to injustice.

His great fear

To be controlled, betrayed or reached in his vulnerability. His dread: depending on someone who might abuse it.

His desire

To remain autonomous and respected, to protect his territory and the people he loves.

His compulsion: what he avoids at all costs

Avoiding weakness. He tests, provokes, ramps up to check whether the other person holds, and never to be the one who undergoes.

His passion (his dominant emotion)

Excess (“lust” in the sense of intensity): everything in him is bigger, stronger, more direct, including work and anger.

His virtue (his quality when he is at his best)

Innocence: the gentleness and trust of someone who no longer needs to defend himself constantly.

His belief that runs on a loop

Vengeance: returning blow for blow, never leaving an injustice or a betrayal unanswered.

His strengths

  • Natural leadership, courage, decision-making ability
  • Protects the weak and says out loud what others keep quiet
  • Considerable energy, great endurance
  • Frank, direct, you always know where you stand with him

His watch points

  • Can intimidate without even realising it
  • Difficulty showing his doubts and fragilities
  • A tendency to power struggles and escalation
  • Impatience with slowness and ambiguity

His comfort zone

In clear situations, where relationships are frank and where he can act. The 8 relaxes with “real” people, who stand up to him without betraying him.

In a real-life situation

In his family as in his company, he is the rampart: a tense negotiation, a hard blow, an injustice, people call him. Other people's children come to take refuge at his place, and his team knows that in a storm, he will stand in front.

II.

His movements: integration and disintegration

When secure, he integrates8 → 2

The Altruist

When secure, the 8 opens up to Type 2: he becomes warm, generous, almost tender, and he protects those he loves gently instead of defending them like a warrior.

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Under stress, he disintegrates8 → 5

The Observer

Under stress, the 8 slides towards Type 5: he withdraws, observes in silence, accumulates information and prepares his return, instead of charging as usual.

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Wing 7 · The Epicurean

The 7 wing makes the 8 more expansive and go-getting: a charismatic leader, who carries people along through enthusiasm as much as through authority.

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Wing 9 · The Mediator

The 9 wing makes the 8 calmer and steadier: a quiet strength, less provocative, who negotiates before imposing himself.

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III.

How to communicate with him

Do

  • Go straight to the point, frankly: he respects those who do not beat around the bush
  • Regard him as an equal and give him real responsibility
  • Keep your commitments and voice disagreements to his face, early

Avoid

  • Manoeuvres, unspoken things and stabs in the back: he smells them and does not forgive
  • Trying to control him through rules or threats
  • Confusing his intensity with systematic aggression
IV.

His verbiage: his typical phrases

“Tell me things frankly, I prefer it.”
“It's simple: who decides, and by when?”
“We leave no one behind.”
V.

At work

A striking force. Excellent in leadership, negotiation, crisis management, wherever decisions must be made under pressure. He benefits from showing his vulnerability judiciously: it is what transforms his authority into trust.